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WHERE IS HOME KATHLEEN PATRICIA CLARKE? 

Our street in Selly Oak, Birmingham 1972 was mainly Irish Catholic. They came from Ireland in the 1950's for work.

 The Avon Lady believed Mum was Irish and brought her a little bottle of holy water from Lourdes.

The Local Priest asked why she hadn't been to Mass when he saw her in the street.

'Cuz I'm not bleeding Irish!'  I would find out she spent the first 3months of her life at the Mother and Baby home on Raddlebarn Rd. 

Nan's name was Kathleen Clarke, unwed mother. The young mothers all took their babies to St Edward's Catholic Churh on a Sunday. Their children were born illegitimate. Still a stigma for life in 1941. The bombs fell in the Blitz as Kath senior worked in Munitions at Ladywood.

Nan had come on the Bus from Scotland to work in the big smoke. She was 19years, parents unknown so Smostly boarded out by the Catholic Church in rural areas.

She told mum she was born in Edinburgh. I found she lied, she was born in a Glasgow slum 1923. 

Our Lady of Lourdes R.C. in  Hednesford, Staffordshire where  baby Kathleen was fostered  until she was 3 years old. 

The luck of the Irish?

3 year old Kathleen had been placed at Nazareth House, Rednal on the outskirts of Birmingham UK because her mother, Kathleen couldn't afford the foster carer after she had a work accident on a Dudley Rd tram.

 

No worker's compensation, no single mother's pension, but she could vote. Father Hudson's was an organised Orphanage run by the Sisters  of Mercy.

Mum said she couldn't remember anything before  NINE years.Nothing before (1941-1949). My memory started at two years.

Mum, Kathleen Clarke dressed up
for one day at Albury Park 1951.

REDNAL ORPHANAGE 3YR-9YR

At NINE years there was unusual activity. There were cut oranges on the tables, and the grown ups were talking about the gifts of charity.

Blimey... my mum thought, handling the first new coat, a Red Coat, they'd ever had. A pair of leather shoes too, for the select few. They were going on a holiday.

The Sisters of Mercy Nuns didn't tell their wards they were to be transported to NSW and NOT coming back!
It would become clear a month later at St. John's Orphanage at Thurgoona, nr Albury, NSW they had been told a big lie. the-wiradjuri-land of Albury etc

Fitted out in beautiful red coats donated by a Charity, the bus trip to Southampton docks was an excursion. Then they found they really were going on a boat trip, "Us kids thought it was a 2 week holiday to Sydney!" said Margaret Coyen who shared a cabin with my mum. 

It was 8th February 1950 the former troop carrier SS Asturias left
England for Australia.

http://www.ssasturias.net/

They were pleased to have a holiday in the sun because even with new coats and shoes it was fuckin' freezing in Birmingham!

From Sydney hostel to Albury Railway Station. Kathleen Clark has her defiant stance, 2nd row, arms folded.

Populate or Perish was the post-war cry of the Australian Labor Government. The first Immigration Minister was particular about choosing white and mainly Roman Catholic children. 

These children would breed and create a balance to the dominant white Protestants. 

 For his efforts the Minister for Emigration, Arthur Calwell would receive the highest honour from the Pope. DOING THE BRITS A FAVOUR - CHILD MIGRATION IN THE COMMONWEALTH No Politician would have a clue what was happening to the children - OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND.

Kathleen Clarke and Margaret Coyne were made to labour through their childhood at the Orphanage and at Farms as domestic workers and child carers.
Any money they earned went to the Reverend Mother. In the meantime the kids would receive constant physical and emotional abuse. 

Some of the abuses are recorded in the pages section.

MARY

Woman's Day featuring a woman who grew up in the same orphanage as my mum.

Mary Mollahan speaks about her experience.

               

MARGARET

Margaret Coyne was in the same Birmingham Orphanage and shared the same berth
as my Mum Kathleen Clark!
" at least when we came to Australia we weren't the bottom of the barrel. 
The aboriginal kids were!"

The Commonwealth of Australia had paid for their one-way ticket, but they were kids and weren't to know there was a patriarchal policy behind their excursion to the other side of the world. 

The illicit conception by the daughters of Eve left pregnant women unsupported and stigmatised.

They were at the mercy and control of a Church/State who determined their punishing destiny. Most often the fathers remained anonymous and free to form legitimate families. 2 GRANDMOTHERS of mine WERE CARDINAL SINNERS. Mum's Mum and Dad's mum bore the secret shame.

We don't know who was the war-time fling who had got Nan pregnant. She kept it secret to the very end or perhaps she confessed and was forgiven?

Generally Fathers were absent and usually economically free of child maintenance. No surprise the Nun had written a note "married man?" "Bellamy?".

Appearances can be deceptive. 5 NUNS TO 120 children.

Mum frequently tried to run away, as did many of the other kids. Nobody would believe the holy order could be so hateful, so unlike the example of Jesus.

 House of Hate and Punishment with the Sisters of Mercy,
St. John's. Cheaper to pile poor kids in charitable institutions than
single parent/family support, then provide heavy domestic labour for other Catholic families at around 11years old.

KATHLEEN 

Goodbye and Good Luck - getting ready to emigrate to
Australia - with Mums Mum, Kathleen Snr Jan 1978

THE BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILD?

Mum had believed her parents were dead from the Nazi bombs of WW2. She was an orphan - an illegitimate orphan. The nuns reminded them that they were little bastards thus nobody loved them.They were cursed; the Bible said so.

 Dressed up for the public - Band Day at
Albury Park. Kathleen 4th row. 4across.

Ignorant that their building and grounds was on the traditional lands of the Wiradjuri, the spirit of the Murray River attracted 12 year old Kath to escape.

What Mum didn't know was that on leaving England her mother had been married for 2 months at the Oratory Church in Ladywood('little Rome')on the Dudley Rd.

I'm assuming Grandmother didn't want to threaten the harmony of her honeymoon phase with her Polish emigrant engineer husband. By telling him she had 2 illegitimate children. 
Yes two! The younger brother Patrick revealed himself 60 years later as being adopted to a loving family as a baby.

Her devout husband felt blessed with a young wife and the arrival of a daughter. 
Imagine the tortuous soul of my Grandmother. Would she relieve herself of her Sins at Confession?
Nan had to catch and hold on to a husband with guile and cunning. 
It was survival.She had too much to lose in a prosperous, stable family.

My Grandmother had been an orphan too, born in a Glasgow slum in 1923. Her mother was dead at 28 years due to Syphillus from her soldier husband.Kath, Marion and Herbert were boarded out as their father was sick and incapable. Thomas Clarke would not see his 3 children again.
So nothing would put her own home and a professional, godly husband in jeopardy.

OCTOBER 1959 Bruno, a Polish immigrant and Kathleen Margaret Alice
marry at the Oratory Church Ladywood. Kath junior was 10 years and living
13,000 miles away.

NO HANDS SIGNED THESE PAPERS WITH PEN AND INK.

Mum got to leave St. John's aged 18years. This time her Polish step-father paid the one way ticket back to Birmingham. His compassion for his wife's secret stirred his wish to reunite Mother and daughter, and half-sister.

Independently minded and with a motivation to follow her own destiny rather than be an unpaid housekeeper and child carer that her Mother wanted, Kathleen junior  found a job at Cadbury's Bournville. 

Kathleen dared to ask her mother if there were  any more children like her hidden away! 

NO was the answer, but 70 years later we know better! HAPPY ST PATRICKS DAY OUR DNA!

LIKE SISTER LIKE BROTHER - 1998  

 Sin and Shame had been programmed into the souls of most ladies who committed Mortal Sin of pre-marital sex.

Uncle PATRICK waited for his well-respected adopted parents to die before he would search for the Mother who gave him up in 1944.

He was flabbergasted to discover he had been walking past the house where his mother lived when walking to and from the Oratory church school.

 Mum and I, Queensland.
 Child Migrant Trust funds enabled her to be at the wedding of her granddaughter and meet her great grand son.

WHO WERE THE BASTARDS



REVISED March 14th 2019